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https://reddit.com/link/1wx9ov3/video/u96ur81cleth1/player We’re three students from Romania, and about a year ago we got stuck on a thought that ended up taking over way more of our lives than we expected. You can know someone for years, love them, live with them, talk to them every day, and still misunderstand some pretty important things about them. Even stranger, you can be completely wrong about yourself too. You might think you communicate well until you realize your partner avoids bringing certain things up because of how you react. You might assume you both want the same future because you’ve never actually talked about the uncomfortable details. Or you can have the same argument ten times without realizing that the argument itself isn’t really the problem. We found that fascinating because a lot of relationship problems don’t appear as one huge dramatic event. They build from small patterns that become so normal that neither person really notices them anymore. That idea eventually turned into Nabu. We started speaking with psychologists and relationship professionals and built thousands of questions around communication, intimacy, money, family, expectations, boundaries, jealousy, affection and all the other things couples often don’t really discuss until they suddenly matter. The original idea was much simpler, but the more we worked on it, the more interested we became in what happens when you stop looking at individual answers and start looking at patterns between two people. For example, two people might both say communication is extremely important to them, while their answers over time show that they deal with conflict in completely different ways. One might need reassurance much more often than the other realizes. They might discover that they have very different expectations about something they assumed they agreed on. Or they might find out that they actually understand each other much better than they thought. That became the part we cared about most. We didn’t want to make another compatibility test that gives you some random percentage at the end. We wanted to see whether the system could gradually understand each person separately and then understand what happens when those two people are together. Because I think most of us behave differently depending on who we’re with. One relationship can bring out your confidence and patience, while another can bring out insecurity, avoidance or jealousy that you didn’t even realize was there. We eventually started using AI to connect those patterns across the answers and interactions, but we’ve tried very hard not to make the whole thing another generic chatbot that gives you five paragraphs of relationship advice. The interesting part for us is the information it learns from both people over time, especially the differences between what each person thinks, expects and actually answers. What started as a side project slowly became a ridiculous amount of late nights between university,

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  • 发布时间：2026/10/4 15:33:30